I listened to the recent Evolved Masculine Path webinar
(this is Destin Gerek’s group, for those not familiar) and for me it was one of
those a-ha moments that has the potential to transform everything.
In this webinar, a couple men were talking about how
difficult it was for them to not have sex, that going out and not coming home
with someone was a real challenge that would require some un-learning.
And I reflected on this from the familiar place of scarcity,
which is where so many men come from – they can’t “get this.” And the light went on – we’re talking about
two sides of the same coin. Both the men
who can’t get laid and the men who can’t stop getting laid are feeling some
sense of lack of self-worth that is driving them. In one case, it’s driving them to scarcity, and
in the other to overabundance.
And it was at that moment my perception shifted. It’s one thing to say “your reality is what
you make it,” and it’s quite another to see it in real life and feel into both
illusions – scarcity and overabundance – and see how they manifest into
reality.
The possibilities here are profound. One can disintegrate the energetic structure
of the scarcity illusion and reprogram it into abundance. This becomes the energetic foundation for all
thoughts, beliefs, habits and patterns.
So if I can feel and experience the energy of abundance, compared to
scarcity, then I can change the energetic elements until they match the desired
experience and voila, instant new reality.
So most of the “inner game” people aren’t going far enough
into the deeper structure. They’re still
focused on feelings, beliefs and habits.
“Outer game” people focus on actions and outcome.
So “Outer Game” as it’s practiced now looks like this: New Action => New Result => New
Perception => Challenge of old belief and eventual replacement with new
belief.
“Inner game” as it is practiced now: New Beliefs => New thoughts => New actions
=> New outcome => confirmation of new belief and eventual new habit as
the energetic structure is realigned (unless the student regresses or stops, in
which case the old belief can return).
But “Energetic Inner Game” is foundational change. New Energetic Structure => New beliefs and
thoughts => new habits and actions => new action/ result feedback loop
which ensures results are aligned with energetic structure. So one can experience a psychic death to
destroy the old structure and then have the archetypes create a new one. The beliefs, thoughts, habits and external
reality will flow automatically from there.
All you need is some reference point for abundance and then
create a new energetic grid. After that,
your thoughts and actions will self-correct to achieve the result from a place
of already “being there” instead of you “trying” to “become.”
Okay, so let’s say you don’t have much experience at
creating new energetic structures (that would be pretty much everyone reading
this), what can you do?
Again, if you have the two reference points at some level –
both scarcity and abundance - then you
can “drill down” into each. Drill into
abundance until you find the essence.
Meditate and keep asking for the feeling behind that feeling. Keep going until it won’t go further. Then take that essence and give it a visual
symbol.
Now go back out, carrying that symbol, and drill into
scarcity until you reach the energetic bedrock and give that a symbol. Now take that symbol, replace it with the
abundance symbol and notice how you feel.
See the symbol take on the characteristics of abundance until that’s all
there is. See that symbol expand until
it fills up your entire awareness. It’s
an advanced form of NLP and much easier if done with a coach than trying to
DIY.
Application of this concept is challenging, but if done
properly it’s powerful. It can change
your life instantly.
I realize this concept is “out there,” but in five years
this will be the “hot new way” to radically transform your life, putting the
self-help people out of business. People
will spend an hour creating a new way of being and then the rest of the time
they would have spent “changing” integrating their new selves and their new
energy.
Instant self-transformation.
No more “pick-up” or long-term “inner game” coaching crap, just zap in
new you and get on with your life.
Sounds pretty good, huh?