The alchemy is running deeper, more earthy, sensual and embodied in its energetic expression. The rituals and lessons becoming more edgy, more sexual.
More Tantric.
The driving force in my current evolutionary arc is sexual
energy – the powerful, orgasmic life force energy that super-charges creative
flow, confidence, vitality and personal transformation.
It’s also crazy good for energizing higher-level alchemy and
energetic connection and healing… and other kinds of energetic expression.
This, along with the cleansing power of the Teal Flame, has
been supercharging my growth these past couple months. Unbelievable breakthroughs – building out a
whole new life for myself, making massive lifting gains at the gym, jumping
into a yoga practice, writing whole novels in a matter of months, supercharged
confidence and allll kinds of other goodies, stacking on top of one another in
beautiful flow since March.
And the major catalyst for this explosion in transformation
has been Sex Magic. For those not
familiar with Sex Magic, I’ll point you to Layla Martin’s podcast on the
subject
I’ll take you through the process I use, which has some
twists and variations, depending on how you want to calibrate it. And I invite you to dive in and find your own
way that works.
Some questions that come up that I’ll get out of the way first:
Do I need a partner?
No, you don’t, though a partnered sex magic experience can amplify the
energy.
Do I need to directly touch myself? No, and maybe. It’s certainly possible to derive the
orgasmic energy without any stimulation, but this might be a challenge for many
without some kind of benchmark. I’ll say
this much – ANY sexual energy, that arousal sensation, is orgasmic energy and
will work just fine for this practice.
Do I need to be fully aroused/ full orgasm? No, you don’t. As I said, any arousal energy will do the
trick. Obviously, more energy works
better, but only if it aids the ritual and doesn’t become a distraction. But as you practice more you can play with
holding more and more energy. It’s like
any other exercise, start small and build up and you might be surprised at what
you can do in a short time.
Can I be clothed? Again, yes. Though you should aim to have a private space
for yourself to do this ritual.
Create a quiet, private ritual space in a way that feels
comfortable, sensual, relaxing and enjoyable for you. Bring in anything that aids in this –
candles, aroma, music, maybe sensual items.
You can take this as far as you want, but when starting keep it simple.
Begin with the intention:
Create your intention. Make it
one thing. Make it as clear and tangible
as you can. Now fully picture it as best
you can with all five senses – what it looks like, sounds like, smells like,
feels like and tastes like. Get every
sense involved as vividly as you can.
And if you feel like you can’t find them all, fill up as
much of the experience as you can with what you can – feel all of what you can
feel. Or sense. Or imagine you can sense.
Now begin to bring your arousal energy into the
intention. Build this energy until you
have as much as you can hold while maintaining your intention.
Now begin to bring this arousal energy to your chakras,
starting with your root chakra.
A basic description of the chakras can be found here.
As you bring the energy up your chakras, visualize each color
and feel the arousal energy increasing.
Go from the root to sacral.
From sacral to solar plexus. From solar plexus to heart. From heart to throat. From throat to third eye. From third eye to crown and as you move to
crown you’re at “peak arousal.”
Here, allow the energy to permeate all your chakras and your
entire body. Bring forth your intention
and make it as vivid as possible, using all five senses. Infuse your intention with the peak sexual
energy. Feel it in the present
moment.
Continue this for as long as you can hold the energy and
your intention, to lock in the pleasure and energy with your intention.
Then relax and breathe slow, deep breaths as your system
returns to center. And then calmly go
about your day.
Later before you go to sleep, meditate briefly and access
the memory of that energy and that intention to anchor it in. When you wake, do the same thing – access the
memory of that energy and the intention, to bring it forward into you daily
experience.
If you want to “lock this in,” do this same ritual with the
same intention for three days. This
locks the sex magic and the intention into your neurology. After that, you won’t need to continue doing
this as its wired in.
During the next three weeks after that, notice where your
thoughts and senses move you and become attuned to that sense. Your body will naturally align you toward
your intention, which may ask you to do things outside your normal
patterns. Follow that.
And as you expand your cultivation practice, you can play
with expanding Sex Magic to deepen your work and improve your results. If you have crystals that help you with
alchemy and meditation, you can integrate these with your practice. You can add other elements that work for you –
sounds like singing bowls, tapping, if that works for you. The energy can massively enhance any practice
you’re already doing, and probably inspire whole new practices you hadn’t
considered.
As I said, this is magical.
Be prepared for some truly incredible, life-changing results. I can’t overstate what a tremendous change it
has made in my own life over a very short time frame – and I’ve done a lot of “work”
over many years. This is pure gold.
Not to mention, it’s fun work, and will massively uplevel in
your own Tantric and sexual experience along the way.
If this resonates, try it for three days and let me know what starts rocking in your world.
