From Tiambika Ma Vie: "How to Penetrate Her to Her Core and Leave Her Trembling" (And My Insight)

This article hits on the essence of real pleasure - attention, conscious action, slowing down, taking in her experience.  Stillness of gaze.

Destin is coming out with an incredible product that expands on this truth and reverse-engineers it to a great degree.

But both of these really only scratch the surface.  The message is to get away from the "what," the "what do I do" into a deeper presence, listening and connection.  Your underlying energy - ability to access stillness and activate your sexual and heart energy - is the foundation.

How you access the messages like this one matter much more than whether you go about implementing the recommendations.  Because if you're coming at this from a "if I do this, then I can get this," you've already limited yourself.

Yes, consciously expanding into the "what" Triambika is talking about will do wonders.  But you're still approaching this from the logical how-to angle, and I'm here to show you how to approach this from your core truth and energetic center.  Then the message from someone like Triambika becomes rather easy to integrate.

It's possible to do a lot of the "wrong things," or few of the "right things" and have incredible experiences if it's from a place of inner truth and energetic awareness.  It's much, much easier to develop sexually from that energetic place inside than to try to layer things (even Tantric practices) on top, like academic study.

The thing is, you likely already have a strong center.  You've just been programmed by your past to suppress, reject, ignore it, or pretend it doesn't exist.  And so your natural sexual energy has been oppressed through fear, shame, deception and low self-esteem.  Maybe you've found ways to work around your energetic blocks but connections feel less-than-full and/or often a lot of work and at some level unsatisfying.

Maybe your relationships fall into a power dynamic and there's an oppressive, conflicting or disempowering energy in them.  Maybe you hear the societal mantra "everyone has these problems/ it takes hard work/ this is as good as it gets," and you logically accept it but in your heart sense there's a bigger way.

And there is.  It starts from the inside, activating and awakening that energy.  From there, everything else flows easily.  Everything.  If you're dreaming of a better life, your higher self knows it's where you belong.  You won't get there by study, you need to take the full dive.