Good Men Love Women Who Cook and Clean. Deal With It.

There was Feminist Outrage ™ on Twitter over some long-haired dude who put out what was essentially a list of things he required in a girlfriend.  Apparently women who didn’t feel they met the requirements were upset.  Because – damn, there goes your shot at this random Twitter guy??

Or is it because this guy and his list might convince other guys to follow his lead and start asking for certain standards in their partners?

I guess that’s the big fear – that quality men will start asserting themselves and coming up with requirements for the women they choose to spend their time with.  And since the feminists proudly lack those qualities, that would mean said feminists would also not receive the attention of said quality men.

Well, sorry ladies, but it’s already happening.  The guys who have value are waking up and asserting themselves when it comes to standards.  And they’re finding that most feminist women are seriously lacking.

Knowing how to cook a meal is a basic requirement of being a functioning human being.  And it’s a quality that most American women under 30 (and far too many over 30 for that matter) now lack – because of laziness, being raised by crappy parents, and a fucked up belief that cooking food is somehow repressive to women.  Knowing how to wash clothes and clean your home – also very basic life skills everyone should know, but most women under 30 fail at miserably.

But the thing is, people still need to eat.  We still need clean clothes and we should live in a reasonably clean home.  Life on a basic level hasn’t changed.  Also, these things should be done by individuals, not hired out to services.  Eating out or ordering in every day is ridiculously expensive, impractical and unsustainable for an average person (not to mention it's unhealthy and will take years off your life).  Maid service is also not for average people.  Basic economics hasn’t changed.

And let’s face it, affordability aside, wasting money on paying someone else to cook and clean is just that, wasteful.  It’s what wasteful rich people do, not what average functional people do.

So a man who is quality – who has a good career, a good social life, who is desired by a lot of women – he can (and should) be choosy.  And you find among those men “cooking and cleaning” are very high on the list of things these men look for in women.

Whining on Twitter and Facebook, hashtagging, bitching and complaining – doesn’t change this.  Guys who have choice generally choose women who cook and clean.  And those “woke feminist” guys – well, they’re turning out to be as lame and unsatisfying as one would expect from men who center their lives around catering to the whims of women. 

(As an aside, I've noticed it's the "woke feminist men" who gravitate toward weird sex workshops that focus entirely on clitoral stimulation, and seem to be especially popular it woke feminist hotspots like the San Francisco Bay Area.  Because they are sooooooooo bad as sex and being a fucking man they think placing extra attention on the obvious symptom of sexual dysfunction will somehow lead to good sex.  And then they can't understand why their women keep cheating on them...)

But even though women really disrespect those men who do their bidding, women like having them around.  They like having the borefriend who will do their chores, cook for them, clean their place for them, and look the other way while they cheat on them with the guys who won’t do any of that crap. 

The problem is those wussy boys are looking around and noticing that their lives suck.  They’re noticing that other men are having it a lot better.  This whole dynamic used to be under-the-radar but now more and more of the “alpha men” are reaching out to help the “betas.” 

And this is very bad news for women.

There is PUA (“Pick Up Artist”) coaching where men who are successful at dating help teach less successful men.  There are other offshoots of this coaching modality.  There’s advice all over the place (some crap, some good), and certain themes keep coming up.

More importantly, men are starting to ask themselves what’s important in a relationship, instead of just looking for the next lay.  It turns out for most men “what makes men happy in a relationship” hasn’t changed much over the generations. 

A good cook is high on the list.  So is a partner who is agreeable and supportive.  A woman who maintains a clean, organized home is a good catch.  A woman who is nurturing and wants to be a good mom is very high on the list.  Interestingly enough, “career success” doesn’t rank on the list.  It’s not that men don’t want their partner to work, they just don’t care much what she’s doing at that job or how well she’s doing it as long as she’s happy and it’s not impacting any of the other things.

Basically, men of quality want women who are the exact opposite of what feminists tell women are important qualities.

And what’s happening when men don’t find good choices in their neighborhood? Well, more and more the men who have options are looking elsewhere.  Either they start looking in Middle America, or they look overseas.  South American, Eastern European, Asian and even African women are becoming more and more popular with American men.  Because they don’t have the attitude problems of Western women.

For a long time, looking for a partner from overseas was very problematic.  The quality of the women – and men looking – was very hit-and-miss, and the quality of platforms (places for potential partners to meet) was poor.  But over the past ten years this has changed.  Technology has made it much easier not only to find people all over the world, but to get to know them very well.  Online dating services have become far more savvy, international and now intra-nationally focused. 

A lot of this has been fueled by the increasing wealth and overpopulation of men in China and India who NEED to look elsewhere, but the demand in the West has been skyrocketing as well.  This is because the typical “horror stories” of finding a foreign bride are being replaced more and more with “success stories.”  Men are seeing their friends and neighbors happily married and raising families with their foreign brides and it’s removing the stereotype of “lame Western dude marrying foreign woman out of desperation,” especially when they see those guys living very enviable lives.

Oh, wait.  There are women in the world who cook and clean and take care of the home.  And they’re good mothers and treat their husbands really well.  Meanwhile I’m struggling with these angry, lazy, flaky, entitled women who can’t even take care of themselves much less anyone else.  Hmm, let me take a look at one of those websites…

Then some average-looking nobody on Twitter posts a “list of requirements in a wife” and women flip out.

But people can flip out all they want – men more and more are raising their standards and finding that Western women raised in feminist ideology are falling far short.  And they’re not bending their standards, they’re casting a wider net. 

We can already see the results, and it’ll only get more pronounced.  We have “two Americas,” the one that lives in the progressive urban feminist bubble and the one that doesn’t.  Yes, there are geographical divides, but there are also vast cultural differences even between neighbors. No, urban areas aren’t a monolith.  The progressive feminist model may be the most dominant and visible one, but there is a very strong countercurrent even in urban areas.  And that’s not even accounting for the people who get fed up and just move to other parts of the country or world.

And no amount of Twitter hashtags or Women’s Studies classes will change human nature.  More and more society is becoming stratified between the more attractive and successful men who value “traditional relationships” (and the women who desire to partner with such men) and the far less successful and desirable men who continue to suck up to women and parrot ideologies they don’t even really believe in because they think sucking up is the way to get laid.  A lot of this is simply because men who value themselves are more attractive and men who value themselves also have high standards for themselves and others.

Apparently “valuing oneself and having high standards” is offensive and politically incorrect, because it excludes those who don’t make the cut.  But then again, happiness is derived in large part from self-confidence and being good at focusing one’s time and energy on things that are worthwhile – which would include things like “priority lists.” 

Which is another way of saying that the “two Americas” is also “Happy America” and “Unhappy America.”  And judging from the attitude of the social justice Twitter mob, it’s not hard to figure out which is which.   Guys – if you want to be happy, ditch the political correctness and keep the “list.”

Basic Universal Truth: Stealing is Wrong

I’m going to lay down a truth that apparently is really upsetting and controversial to some people:

Stealing is wrong.

It is wrong to take things from others without their permission.

Theft is wrong.  It is bad.  If you steal, it damages your karma and bad things will follow.  This is just the way it is. 

This should be obvious to people, but for whatever reason a certain significant minority of people have a problem with this.  In their mind, stealing is okay, or even a good thing. At some level, they support a kleptocracy and see this as a way to right some wrongs or something.  But to put it very simply, they’re wrong.  They’re full of shit.  And they can repeat their BS as often as they want, it’s still BS.

The truth is the truth – taking things from other people is wrong and it damages your karma.  Period.

Please stop with your Burning Man “share everything” nonsense.  That’s not how the world works – it’s not even how Burning Man works, so please stop. 

This is a simple, basic, universal truth – stealing is wrong.  Don’t do it, period.

I’m getting very tired of people blaming cops for shooting someone who inevitably turns out was stealing.  Bad things happen to you when you do bad things – sometimes spectacularly bad and right away, sometimes later or over time or into the next lifetime.  Instead of complaining about how karma dishes out punishment, learn to accept it and – again – STOP DOING BAD THINGS!

And I know people will react with the typical “oh you’re not supposed to be judgmental” nonsense. Hey dummy, I’m not the one punishing you.  I don’t deliver the karmic justice. Instead of blaming me for stating an obvious truth, try ACCEPTING the truth for a change.

A person was shot by the cops because he was caught stealing.  People might want to complain it’s “harsh,” but the reality is the only reason he was shot was because he had decided to steal.  This is how the law of cause and effect works.

It seems there is a significant portion of the leftist – I’m not sure if it’s a majority, but it’s a lot – who either approve of theft of think it’s not a big deal.  And yes, it cuts very clearly along ideological lines – people on the “liberal” end of the spectrum are MUCH more okay with theft.  The leftists are also okay with (or even actively supportive of) murder of babies.  The lines are pretty distinct here.

And this is the group that will whine and complain “you can’t say stealing is wrong, you can’t say abortion is wrong, that’s judgmental!”  Folks, karma does not care one bit about your feelings.  Stealing is wrong.  “Oh, but I really want to steal!”  Doesn’t matter.  “Telling me it’s wrong makes me feel bad!”  No, you choose to feel bad when presented objective information – that’s not the information’s fault, it’s your fault for lacking proper emotional coping skills.  “Saying abortion is wrong is offensive!”  Only to someone who lacks basic emotional skills.

“You can’t tell me what to do!”  I’m NOT.  I’m not the authority here.  Take it up with the universe.  Universal Law says stealing and murder are wrong.  If this truth hurts your feelings, that’s because you are painfully out of alignment with the universe.  If you want to stop feeling that pain, then you need to adjust to align with the universe – by changing your behavior so you’re no longer stealing and killing, for example.  And change your behavior so you’re not enabling others to fall out of alignment with the universe.

If all this makes you feel bad, then really you should be feeling bad and then do something positive about it. Because the truth isn’t going to change – but YOU can change. 

So instead of arguing with me when I state universal law, try FOLLOWING THE LAW.  Because one way or another, the universe is going to make you change.  And karmic justice can really suck for you and everyone around you. 

Sealing is wrong.  Murder is wrong.  Stop arguing and accept it. 

Fake News, The Cabal Collapse and the Energetic Tipping Point

The Cabal is crumbling. The mainstream news media is being exposed daily for fraudulent, deceitful and outright made-up reporting.  The Western leftists are going crazy and exposing their true agenda, as well as the lies behind this agenda.  The meltdown of the Cabal, the media and the leftists is accelerating.

In other words, the energetic elevation of Planet Earth is going along nicely and according to plan.

For those of you who have been following this, the current realignment and collapse of the Cabal and the leftists makes sense.  Those opposed to freedom and engaged in deceit and manipulation cannot survive as the energetic frequency of the planet rises. First, their energetic structures will collapse; then their outward expression will devolve; and finally, they disappear completely, either converted into higher-frequency energies or fall completely by the wayside. 

So let’s look at what’s going on.

The whole “Trump-Russia collusion” story was made up from the beginning.  Now the motives of the Cabal agents behind the false charges are coming to light.  There was in fact an attempted coup in May 2017. There were two other attempted coups that have yet to be reported.  The media has been spinning lies nonstop to try and delegitimize Trump and keep the Cabal alive.

But the energetic structure supporting the Cabal (which includes the media) is gone, so their lies are being exposed. The outright media lies are becoming more brazen and easily refuted.  They got so desperate as to smear Covington High School students – and were exposed for lying almost right away. They tried to cover for the Virginia governor’s support of death (I’ll get to that later).  There was also this bizarre fake story involving Jussie Smollett that turned out to be a hoax – he staged a fake hate crime and tried to blame it on Trump.  All this is on top of the daily lies about Trump supposedly colluding with Russia. 

At this point the mainstream news media is dead.  Nobody has any faith in the media anymore.  It’s to the point that “I heard it on CNN” is shorthand for “I heard a rumor that’s probably not true.” Those aligned with the Cabal are completely detached from what is accurate and true.

Truth, freedom and life are intertwined.  Those not aligned with the higher energies are now taking a strong stand against these things and exposing their true colors.  New York leftists celebrated passing a bill that basically legalizes murder of babies.  Virginia leftists tried to do the same thing and their governor nonchalantly explained why he didn’t think infanticide was a big deal – and the media agreed.  Again, those who are not aligned with life cannot fathom why killing would be a big problem. 

Instead, the governor got embroiled in some crazy story about him wearing blackface or a KKK hood – and not being able to remember which it was (which can only mean he wore both at one time or another), then claimed he didn’t, and no claims he’s a champion of civil rights.  The lieutenant governor is accused of rape and another official admits to wearing blackface.

I grew up in the 1980s.  Blackface and KKK robes were NOT a thing.  In fact, that shit was considered very uncool then. Even in the 60s normal people didn’t do that crap.  Apparently the news media wants us all to believe an alternate reality about the 1980s.  But then again, when you spend all day telling us Trump colluded with the Russians, what’s the big deal about an alternate reality where everyone in the 80s was wearing blackface and KKK robes?

Nobody is buying these lies except the people who need to, because their lives depend on the survival of the Cabal.

And that brings us to the “Green New Deal,” juxtaposed with the collapse of the socialists in Venezuela.  The rising energetic vibration is destroying socialism right down to its core, and you can see this in what is going on in places like Venezuela.  Meanwhile crazy people tried to promote that socialism under the guise of “saving the planet” (the planet in fact doesn’t need saving, it’s just fine, thank you).  Then they tried to run away from it.  Then the media tried to cover their tracks.

Meanwhile, leftists go crazy over pictures like this: 

And nobody believes any of what the media is doing.  So why did they do it?

Good question.  Pendulum testing confirms it’s a symptom of their deepening insanity – they’re now living in a delusion that believes the planet is collapsing ecologically, that Trump is colluding with Russia, that socialism is functional at any level, that the media is telling the truth and that the Cabal is in control.  Basically they’ve invented an alternate reality bubble and they’ve put themselves inside and they’re telling themselves it’ll be okay.

The earth will be okay.  It is okay.  It was never in danger.  The environmental false flags were put there specifically to distract and confine the opposing forces while the archangels set up the grid and began the process of elevating the frequency of the earth.  Now that this is in place and inevitable, there’s no need for the false flags (thus the rapid cooling of the earth, the continuation of process that was intentionally bypassed), and there’s no need to worry about the Cabal or other forces opposed to the ascension process.

So now, again according to plan, the lies are exposed, the liars are revealed, those opposed to life are forced into indefensible positions and karmic justice, and the Cabal and its supporters lurch into insanity and eventual death.  Yah, I was a little vague before – the planet is perfectly fine, but those on the side of the Cabal will not survive the process.  They’re already manifesting signs of insanity. 

It’s not yet time to rejoice, but we have reached the tipping point.  The energies are moving inexorably in our favor.

Death Cults and Politics

I didn't plan on this blog becoming political. In fact, I figured "Spiritual Woo-Woo" would put me far away from the sphere of screaming monkeys and troll bots.

But - politics is human nature.  And human nature is a part of the spiritual evolution dynamic.  More specifically, the part that gets in the way of spiritual evolution.

So here we are in this day and age talking about the evolution of our planet and we have people losing their minds over Donald Trump, who is an anti-Cabal change agent, slandering kids who demonstrated at a pro-life rally, and passing legislation to legalize abortions all the way up to the last day of pregnancy.

We've got crazies promoting "open borders," to facilitate human trafficking, illegal attempts to try to remove Trump by any means, slander against Kavanaugh, lies about environmental collapse to try to impose socialism, oppression by the dictators in Venezuela, on and on.

I'm talking about how humanity is evolving while humanity is showing itself to be ever darker, more evil, more anti-life and anti-truth than ever.  How can this be?

How can we be evolving with this going on?

The Cabal is dying, but it's not dead.  It knows it's dying and it's desperate.  It's lashing out on all fronts and in every way.  So "above the surface" we can see a lot of froth and movement.  But it's "wind chop."  It looks like a lot but it's actually weak and whipped-up for visual effect.  Underneath the current is moving ever stronger in a different direction - toward life, toward truth, toward freedom.

Venezuelans want freedom.  Americans don't want open borders or socialism.  A huge majority of American want Roe v Wade repealed.  Reality is moving in the opposite direction of what we see on the news.

The death cult is real.  Their celebration of abortion is profoundly bizarre and downright inhuman.  Only a death cult would actively celebrate abortion.  It's one thing to take a stance that government cannot be a substitute for individual moral judgment - in other words, avoiding doing something you want to do because it is illegal is still immoral, so remove the government from the equation.  But this is a full-on celebration of death. 

That's the true colors of the Cabal on display.  And it's ugly. 

But I'm saying the Cabal is dying - yet they're out there doing a lot of damage. Leftist governments, leftist political movements, old-guard corporate governance, government bureaucracy, universities  and the establishment news media are the last vestiges of the Cabal.  Their objectives are always oppression and death and they operate through fear - there's always some "worse thing" that's going to happen (some end-of-the-world) which makes their hellish alternative seem palpable. 

And since most people live in fear, their messaged get resonance.  But less and less so.  Because the energy of their messages is dead now.  People are starting to see thorough them.  Yes, they got a law passed in New York.  But that's surface chop, like I said. Remember, at one point Hitler, Stalin and Mao controlled a majority of the world's population within the same generational time period. 

The current has been moving against the Cabal for a long time now.  Today might look bad, but the end of the Cabal is fast approaching - evolution is happening.

There's Nothing to Say

I haven’t been blogging much.  I’ve been doing a lot lately, and in that active state of doing I don’t seem to have much inspiration for talking.

It’s a bit more than that, actually. 

There are major changes going on, both in the external energies and in my own energy.  It has me questioning and reevaluating what I’m doing, and also has me really bored with sitting around and thinking about any of that. Even writing this here is tiresome for me.

It’s a transition phase.

Right now I’m bored with the talking.  I see so many so-called coaches and self-proclaimed light workers filling up space with talk-talk-talk and they have nothing to say.

Social media full of people blathering about “cock worship” (blabbity blah blah… talkie talkie), some idiot whose broke as a joke selling himself as a coach to teach you to “f*ck your way to wealth” or some such nonsense.  A lot of broke blokes and chicks giving success advice… blah.. blah… blah.  

Nonsense about Winter solstice and full moons and just… taaaaaaaallllk talk talk talk talk…

Lots of lectures and pointless commentary and the usual claptrap predictions about how everything is going to change and it’s a new reality and it’s all going to be sweetness and light or some other intangible nonsense, same as every freaking year.

If I sound jaded and negative, it’s only because I’m finding all the people talking to be useless.  I’m actually doing a lot of good things, and I don’t feel like adding to what feels like an endless sea of empty words.  So I won’t.

I’m not quitting.  If I feel inspired to say something, I will. 

My advice – get off social media and go for a walk or something.  Stop wasting time reading the nonsense of people who have nothing to say.  It seems the people who know aren’t talking and the people who are talking don’t know.  Nobody has anything useful to say right now, so get off the computer.  You won’t miss anything.

California Fires and Energetic Ascension

I’m writing this as I’m sitting in the orange glow of a sky obscured by clouds. I can feel the smoke in my lungs. Mileage wise I don’t live too far away from the fires in Los Angeles, but far enough away that they won’t get anywhere close to here.

I’ve lived in Southern California my whole life. After all these years, I’ve seen the energies here devolve more and more.  I don’t think staying in one place for a lifetime is a good idea.  Especially if that place is the Los Angeles area.  I’ve kind of found myself stuck here because of family commitments and bad decisions on my part. 

Every time I go to places outside of California, outside of the LA-San Francisco energetic swamp, things are considerably better.  Yes, Thailand of course.  The energy there is awesome, even with their problems. But even Arizona, or Colorado, or Pennsylvania.  Just about anywhere the energies are better. New York City has a lot of issues, as does Washington, DC, but even those places have better energy.  Coastal California really is an energetic shithole like no other. 

It’s a shame, really.  Such beautiful geography and weather, but polluted with decades of energetic crap. 

The forces of light – the Orions, the guardians of Source consciousness, are elevating the energy of Planet Earth.  There’s a lot of talk in California “hippie communities” about Ascension, but they get it all wrong.  Ascension isn’t where the world becomes some Communist utopia and everyone runs around naked hugging trees, living in communal villages, never shaving and having indiscriminate sex.  Or some weird Start Trek fantasy, which is basically Hippie Commune with advanced technology.  Bleah. 

Would any normal person even want to be stuck in that reality, much less consider it something ideal?  The huge majority of people would rather stay in their imperfect world than be stuck in the California Hippie idea of heaven.  Or even the California progressive idea of heaven.

Ascension isn’t going to lead to those places. It’s an alignment with truth.  If you remove all the blocks, distortions and falsehoods from the world, as well as all the dark energies, you get Ascension. 

But what if there exists a large concentration of dark energies, distortions and resistance in one place? And what if the people in that place have access to a lot of “evolved energies” that give them quite a bit of power? And what if these people are so attached to their distortions, falsehoods and dark energies (the Communist agenda and its offshoots) that they’d rather die than change?

Well, that would be California.

And the worst part is this energetic cancer is spreading around the world.  Oregon, parts of Colorado and Arizona, even Florida, Britain, Australia, Costa Rica. Bali.  All majorly infected. It’s even infected places like Montana.

Those who are in charge of elevating the energy here on Earth have patiently tried to shepherd Californians to realign.  Every time Californians have not only not changed, they dug in their heels stronger.  Now the situation is worse than ever.  California is aligned even more with 1960s hippie delusions, Burning Man, polluted sexual connections, misaligned ideology, spiritual self-delusion, all of it. 

Neither earthquakes nor fires nor every warning under the sun will change people’s minds, and the Archangels have seen enough. These fires are intense, focused and unstoppable.  The forces of light aren’t messing around anymore, and those resisting will be burned like chaff.

It’s harsh,  It’s tragic.  It’s sad.  And it’s inevitable.

So what’s my advice for people still listening to me? First, listen.  Not follow me, but attune your own psychic hearing and listen for the truth.  If you’re listening to me, you’re not deluded by the California false spiritual zeitgeist.  If you think I’m full of it, it won’t matter what I say, so I’ll wish you goodbye now.

My other advice,  focus on your own evolution. Don’t worry about the people resisting you or who won’t listen to you, despite your best efforts. If this is your circle, you need to find a new circle or go your own way.  Let the other people go – you can’t save them and it doesn’t look like anyone is changing.

I’m noticing things about these fires. They seem to be focused on destroying property, particularly in Malibu and Hollywood, but also in Northern California.  The timing is almost immediately after the election.  The response is “this is the new normal,” a sort of angry fatalism. 

The energies of these fires is unbelievable and having an immediate positive effect.  The people in the spiritual swamp are either in denial or a fatalistic death watch.  But the “normal people” (however few of them are left) who are just doing their thing are having a major energetic upleveling.  The handful of people that “get” what’s going on are quietly celebrating (because it looks bad to celebrate in the middle of a tragedy), because the surrounding energy is amazing and the dark forces are burning away.

So my last bit of advice is to soak up the energy, grow, evolve and don’t let the “bad news” get in the way of your own ascension.  It might seem unfair that you’re growing and evolving while people around you are suffering.  I understand that.  (Though I won’t lie, I’m happy to see Hollywood people taking it on the chin after all the messes they’ve caused.)  But don’t mute or diminish yourself at this time.  If your energy is rising, go with it, it’s what you’re called to do.   

Re. Feminism and Masculinity, the "Red Pill" Dudes Have Actually Swallowed the Same Blue Pill

"What if I told you both pills are blue?"

Whining About Feminism is Just as Toxic as Feminism.

Guys, if you want to get out from under the BS of Western media, the first thing you need to do is STOP BUYING INTO IT.

Let it all go.

It’s all bullshit.

You want to be a real, naturally grounded man?  Stop buying into the lies.  Notice I didn’t say “do the opposite of the lie,” I said get out entirely. 

You see, the “Red Pill” dudes, the “Men Going Their Own Way,” the angry anti-feminists, they’re all just as weak and pathetic as the guys who think they’re “woke” by handing their balls over to angry feminists. Because the problem isn’t that you’re on the wrong team, it’s that the ENTIRE GAME – the stadium, the crowds, the teams – DOESN’T EXIST in real life.

Real masculine grounded energy has NOTHING to do with artificial constructs like “patriarchy” or “feminism.”  It doesn’t care what some psycho wrote in Cosmo.  It couldn’t care less what you or anyone else thinks about Donald Trump.  It doesn’t run around trying to figure out “what women like,” or arguing with people about their opinions, or feeling angry or threatened because some socially maladjusted twit posted some screed from her computer.

I’ve seen a lot of guys who are “feminists” and “anti-feminists,” and basically they’re both different flavors of the same food:  pathetic sandwich.

If you aspire to being a man who stands in his own truth, who is grounded to his natural core, the first step is to STOP FOLLOWING THE ILLUSIONS OF OTHERS.  And “feminism” is an illusion.

Here’s a practice as an example.  Close your eyes, access stillness, and feel “feminism.”  Without thinking, without arguing, without reacting with anger or anything else, feel “feminism.”  What does it feel like?  Hot?  Cold?  Soft? Hard?

Yes, it’s a trick.  Because it DOESN’T ACTUALLY EXIST.  You can’t hold it or measure it.  It isn’t a song, it doesn’t sit in the breeze or float out in the distant universe.  You can’t call upon past or future lives to bring it to you.  IT ISN’T REAL – anywhere in the universe at any point in time.  Why?  BECAUSE IT IS AN EGO CONCEPT.

We do this with a lot of things.  The Ego tries to convince us it is real.  The Ego is actually a batch of neural pathways (so technically there is “something”) that sit in the brain and conceptualize our existence.  And along with this, we conceptualize a lot of other stuff that isn’t really there.

You think dolphins conceptualize patriarchy?  They may be aware that they exist and can die.  But no, dolphins don’t spend their time creating bullshit social constructs.  They also don’t hire coaches to teach them how to mate.  (And it appears dolphins actually do have sex for pleasure, like humans.  They just don’t have our BS hang-ups about it.)

Men in the West are trained to be afraid of women, afraid of the feminine.  It’s one thing to celebrate your masculinity, to be proud to be a man and what that means, and quite another to be afraid of women or of the feminine.  It’s not like this in every culture, but here in the West men are trained to be afraid of women. 

Men are afraid women think badly of them.  Afraid of women getting angry.  Afraid of feelings and emotions that might be considered “feminine.”  Afraid of Mom, afraid of their wives and girlfriends.  Afraid of everything woman.

And when you’re afraid of something, it owns you.  Why are so many Western men petrified little bitches when it comes to even talking to women they’re attracted to?  It’s that ingrained FEAR.  It shows up as passive fear, aggression, anger.  Even the whole “Red Pill” movement is based on fear.  As is the wimpy, supplicating “woke men” male feminist nonsense. It’s all fear – a society of wimpy men who don’t know how to deal with women, with the feminine.

I’m convinced that feminism was brought about because of Western men’s fear of women. It’s a mental disorder that manifested because the male fear of women started causing women to go crazy in response, and from that collective neurosis feminism was born.

I’m also convinced that 99% of our sexual disorders (including the really dysfunctional “normal Western sex life”) stem from this fear.  Men fear women, women respond and become neurotic.  Women become detached from their natural sexual response and expression.  Then we end up with this toxic non-orgasmic porn culture where women’s deep-seeded neurosis has led to their inability to naturally express and enjoy sex (which has in turn been defined as “normal”) while sexually objectifying themselves in ways that just make things worse and worse.

The sexual hang-ups men have also stem from fear of the feminine.  Homophobia comes from this, too (which only adds to the other problems above).

Again – other cultures where men aren’t afraid of women, women are much more connected to their orgasm.  Things that Western men are told “don’t work for women” work just fine.  Women are both more sexual, orgasmic and expressive and at the same time more modest, more careful about choosing partners, and not willing to debase themselves to satisfy some fear-based male fantasy.

In other words, men and our unnatural fear of women has fucked everything up and created all the monsters that are tormenting our lives.  Now we have feminism, distrust between the sexes, and really bad sex.  All these “issues” women have are a reflection of men’s inability to deal with this irrational fear of the feminine. 

Women aren’t born fucked up, but women are extremely adaptable and responsive, especially to men.  So if men (especially fathers) are carrying issues around women, she’ll catch those mental disorders like a virus and it fucks up her feminine expression.

This is why men like David Shade will advise men to “choose wisely,” citing “relationship to her father” as the #1 determinant of a woman’s sexual responsiveness. In other words, the less a woman is poisoned by the hang-ups of Western men, the easier it is for her to be extremely orgasmic.  He doesn’t say that last part, I connected those dots, and I’m not the first to do so.

To continue on that path a little longer, Western men are obsessed with the rational, logical mind, the ego. It’s good for some things, but when it comes to sex it sucks ass.  Western men have been given a lot of advice about “do this/ do that/ push here/ push there,” most of which focuses on the clit.  When a woman withdraws sexually, her body becomes less sensitive. This desensitization continues until only the clit (or even just a small part of the clit) is responsive, and then only with a lot of “work.”  But she wasn’t born this way, and it’s not “natural.”  Fucked up ego-driven society took away her naturally awakened feminine essence and replaced it with  rusty robot.  Then the same fucked up ego-driven world called that robot “normal” and “human.”

It dawned on me part of what Rion is doing with Natural Grounding is showing men what normal human feminine expression looks like.  And because it’s so rare in the West, it seems like Goddess energy or special or “awakened.”  I can tell you from personal observation backed up by that of many others that “awakened feminine” is actually “normal feminine.”  She’s made that way.  And as long as the men in her world don’t fuck it up by telling her there’s something wrong with being a woman, she’ll stay that way.  And she’ll go on to have a very happy and fully expressed sex life, regardless of whatever other problems she’ll have in her life.

If she senses at an early age that something is wrong, she’ll withdraw.  She doesn’t want to hurt men she cares about, so she’ll unconsciously hurt herself instead. 

And that fucked up ego-based fear is hurting men.  As long as you’re afraid of feminine polarity, you can’t access your full masculine polarity.  You become the walking mannequins we see all around – men controlled by their egos, unable to access their real masculine potential.  You become the wimpy, accommodating “nice guy,” or the posturing “aggro dude,” or the douchey “bro,” or the oppressive, insecure abusive man.  Or any combination of these.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.  We can un-learn all of these fears and hang-ups.  We can access a whole different plane of reality.  It’s a place where you’re a comfortable, grounded man, regardless of whatever other problems you have in life.  It’s a place where sex is easy, natural, very expressive and fun – because that’s how it naturally is and has been before we fucked it up with our egos.  You’ll have to let go of that limiting belief that it’s about you and your skillz and accept a higher truth that doesn’t serve your ego, but it’ll be a lot more enjoyable for you than some ego rush. 

Doesn’t that sound good?